![]() ![]() I think of our behavior in terms of being more or less skillful rather than in terms of good and bad.To love is, first of all, to accept ourselves as we actually are.This is why, whenever we have a perception, we have to ask ourselves if our perception is right. A wrong perception can be the cause of a lot of suffering. Other people’s actions are the result of their own pain and not the result of any intention to hurt you.You have to accept her weaknesses and bring your patience, understanding, and energy to help her transform. If you only like the best things in a person, that is not love. True love includes a sense of responsibility and accepting the other person as she is, with all her strengths and weaknesses.Loving someone doesn’t mean saying “yes” to whatever the other person wants. The basis of loving someone else is to know yourself and to know what you need.There are three kinds of intimacy: physical, emotional, and spiritual.True love cannot be without trust and respect for oneself and for the other person. ![]() In a deep relationship, there’s no longer a boundary between you and the other person
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